{#healinghaiku: 12♦4}

Today’s word is “prepare.” It’s not yet time for anything — nor can we push forward, nor go back – but sit with this emptiness, ready. To pile on boxes, festoon with lights, to celebrate. To share a crust and cup, to honor friends come and gone. To pack, close up, and sweep off to new places.

Prepare. Be ready. Something is coming.

Skyway Drive 269

pruned back and covered
bounteous earth lies sleeping
a table, prepared

{#healinghaiku: 12♦3}

Yesterday, I saw a tweet that read, “I will not grow weary. I will not grow weary. I will not grow weary. I will not grow weary.” I felt an immediate kinship – and thought of Tech Boy, who makes his daily calls to the senators and representatives on the way to work, who keeps up and reads all the articles, all the bills, all the proposed laws and bulletins. He digs in – and actually does the work. Every day. Every morning. Without fail. I will not grow weary. And yet, sometimes – already – it is a temptation for the less determined of us.

But, we know the gig here, though, right? I mean, even this carrot, which took A YEAR to actually mature being a little froth of volunteer seedling, even it knows.

2016 Winter Garden Carrot 1

don’t faint

and in due season
not a moment before time
behold the harvest

{poetry seven: the cloister ekphrastic}

This month, Andi had the most amazing images for us to share of a site in her home state, the Glencairn Cloister, family home of Mildred and Raymond Pitcairn. If you want to take a digital stroll there, you can look at the front of the church that the cloister adjoins. As to what a cloister is:

During medieval times cloisters served as a quiet place for religious contemplation, and cloister arcades were often carved with symbolic sculptures to encourage mindful meditation. In planning Glencairn’s cloister, Pitcairn, a member of the Bryn Athyn New Church congregation (Swedenborgian Christian), continued this tradition. The visual focal point of the space is a series of symbolic bird capitals surmounting the columns that form the inner arcade. According to E. Bruce Glenn, author of Glencairn: The Story of a Home, in New Church tradition birds are used as spiritual symbols of “those ideals of the mind that lift us above worldly concerns as the flight of a bird draws our eyes from the earth.”

There are birds and arches and courtyards and benches carved with animals, and they’re full of meaning. It’s lovely, and I really want to go there in person someday.

There’s a tiny bench carved with a sheep and a lamb – representing family – that especially spoke to me. In this Sturm und Drang world in which we live right now, a tiny bench, where we’re forced to sit close and look at each other seems… ideal. When I was teaching, I was fond of the “Nose-to-nose, knee-to-knee” approach. With fifth graders, who seem to boil up into quick conflict that fades nearly as quickly, it was a surefire way to force my grudging grumps into proximity with each other. If you’re sitting facing someone, it’s harder to lie to them – and to yourself – about what happened to your friendship. It’s also harder to avoid each other. It’s harder to interrupt someone who is right there (well, usually). It’s easier to listen (mostly). One on one, knee-to-knee, the problems we face could take the first steps toward healing, if we could just listen. Reason. Together.

glencairn-ekphrasis-photo-december

House Your Heart

your head (my heart)
comprised of stone:
you (willful) push
and I (alone) retreat
and leave you to your phase –
our glacial war goes on for days.

my spirit (weak)
(my flesh) unnerved
I, at the table, bargain served,
but you (the victor) call the tune…
I cede the floor.
you dance (your doom).

don’t build your house (your heart)
of stone. foundations firm are fine,
but iron forged from chill confines
(of earth) do not then grow,
Or change. rebirth erupts from soil,
from honest sod (disruptive dirt!)

the breath of God breathes in
(and seeds. and life. and health)
the wind blows through and tides
that ebb become renewed.
contrive some wriggle-room to find
within the walls. (within the mind)

so hearts (still beating)
won’t anneal and iron wills
won’t meld to steel.
let distance, love,
(begin) to heal.

your head (my heart)
a maze of cracks
gray loneliness is our new black
life’s tepid soup no tears can season…
come, knee-to-knee, sit.
Let us reason.


More poetry abounds; the Seven Sisters celebrate another twelve months of poet-ing with forms of all kinds: Kelly, sharing a poulet-appointed, puffed-up perfection; Sara, who also found the same bench appealing; Liz, whose poem has itself a beautifully cathedral-like tone; Tricia, venturing aloft — and into love poems; Laura, hallowing the artistry of stone. Thanks, Andi, for the inspiration!

This concludes 2016’s Seven Sisters Poetry… next year should be interesting!

More poetry, hosted by Words for Wee Ones, in praise of community.

{#healinghaiku: 12♦1}

“…this is. And thou art. There is no safety. There is no end. The word must be heard in silence. There must be darkness to see the stars. The dance is always danced above the hollow place, above the terrible abyss.” – Ursula K. LeGuin, THE FARTHEST SHORE, Chapter 8

That is both the loveliest and the scariest quote, from the loveliest and scariest scene in that particular story. That moment is of failure – near-failure, anyway – to acknowledge both a friendship and a debt — and then, the redemption of that moment.

We have already failed. We have not acknowledged. We are in debt. And now for redemption.


My cousin Mary Lee is doing daily haiku-ish things (senryu, etc.) celebrating the season, commonplace marvels (which is a lovely idea) — and some in this group are doing holidays, etc. When we identify the project as “healing,” this isn’t a “slap-a-bandage-over-hemorrhage” type of thing. We acknowledge the world is craptastic, but we’re going to write a haiku anyway – and give ourselves a bit of breathing space by acknowledging the beautiful. So, maybe it’s more health-giving haiku. Holistic haiku. Whatever. This is good ritual and practice; we’ve done gratitude, and now we’re moving toward grace.

Hayford Mills 245

    frosted morning roof:
    autumn’s proof of life. Above,
    belted Orion